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April 2012 Newsletter

In Uncategorized on April 9, 2012 at 5:33 pm

“It could be said that there is a period in a child’s second year when nature leads the intelligence through progressive stages until he gains a knowledge of everything.”
Dr Maria Montessori 

DATES TO REMEMBER:
Cardinals group parent-teacher conferences, see list for time slots
Austin Positive Parenting Book Club, Sun. April 15th, 1-3pm “Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline”
SCHOOL CLOSED Friday April 20th
The Montessori Journey, April 28th, 9-11am:  follow the sensorial materials from birth through the kindergarten year (child care will not be available as we are hoping most of our teachers attend)
 

“As the aim of the exercise is not that the rods be arranged in the right order of gradation, but that the child should practice by himself, there is no need to intervene.”  

- Dr. Montessori’s Own Handbook, P. 76

 

“A child has a sensitive period which lasts until he is almost 5 years old which enables him to assimilate images from his environment in a truly prodigious fashion.”   

- Secret of Childhood Chapter 9   

 

In the life of the child from 0-3 there are what Dr Montessori called “sensitive periods.” They are often referred to as ‘windows of opportunity’ and are meant to define those time periods when the child is especially open to learning something specific. It is a time of greater ‘sensitivity’ to say, order, movement, small objects, refinement of the senses and language. These periods of sensitivity are universal and transitory. They have a gradual beginning, reach a maximum and then fade away. Dr Montessori said, “When a particular sensitiveness is aroused in the child, it is like a light that shines on some objects and not on others, making of them his whole world.”  As adults working and living with young children, we use our knowledge of these periods; their duration and the function that is being established to provide positive assistance.  

 

How do we do that?  With the upcoming Silent Journey through the Sensorial Materials, this article will focus on those materials, the presentation of use, and the use of language as support, and how easily it could be a distraction, from the task at hand.

 

Through the use of the beautiful materials Dr Montessori developed, children experience all that our senses have the power to discern. It is through his senses that the child studies his environment – at first by putting everything in the mouth to gain information about it, and then also by use of the hand.

 

The infant comes into the world with his senses already working; he’s already been hearing sounds and seeing light/dark; he’s been feeling his face and sucking on his fingers and he’s even had experiences of taste! At birth he is already a sensorial explorer!   Now he uses those senses to orient himself in his new surroundings. At first he will engage with his “points of reference” from prenatal life: touching his face, hearing his mother’s heartbeat, tasting maternal milk, etc. After a while he may concentrate on, say, a mobile hanging above the mat area. As long as he is concentrating on that mobile, there is no need to say anything. To do so is an interruption to his concentration. His visual sense is engaged by the slow moving mobile. The time for ‘conversation’ is when there is eye contact and the baby is observing the adult face.

 

In the Children’s House (3-6 classroom) it is equally important for the adults not to interrupt a child in concentration.  This age child is in the sensitive period for continued exploration or refinement of the senses. This refinement is aided by the introduction to, and use of these sensorial materials. They were designed for the exploration of the qualities of hot/cold, big/little, wide/narrow, tall/short, rough/smooth, sweet/sour, heavy/light, etc.   Each item is introduced to the child with very little, if any, language. With no words to listen to, the child is free to be fully present with his senses. Exploration comes with repeated use of these self-correcting materials .. and the child learns as his ‘inner teacher’ urges him towards perfection in his work.

 

Language is introduced and then the exploration of the materials continues through extensions of that initial lesson. “Bring me the long/short/longest/shortest rod” is an essential part (manipulation) of reaching full understanding which supports his recall when asked “what’s this?” We use a condensed request: ”Bring me the short rod” and not ”Walk over to the shelf slowly and carefully, not stepping on anyone else’s work, see if you can find the short rod and then, carrying it with two hands, walk back here with it.”

 

The three period lesson includes Introduction (This is …) followed some time later with Association/Recognition  (Show me…) followed by Recall (What is this?…).

 

The first period introduces a word or two. At home with a young child I may, while doing the laundry together, refer to an item of clothing simply by its name: shirt. After a while an adjective is added: green shirt. And then, Peter’s green shirt! Noun, adjective, and possessive! In the second period, where items are manipulated, a child might be asked to bring me the shirt .. the green shirt … Peter’s green shirt. And in the third, he can tell me what and whose that is.

In the classroom, the sensorial materials are manipulated through many “games” that involve remembering what they’ve crossed the room to retrieve and then carrying that item through the room without disturbing anyone else’s work. Often there are many trips across the room to retrieve all the parts of a particular activity. For instance, each knobbed cylinder block has ten cylinders!  

Montessori classrooms are, and should be, abuzz with activity. Children in motion, engaged in a variety of activities.  The Silent Journey will be a lovely chance to experience the room in an extraordinary state: silence.  Ahhhhh.  

How we break that silence with the children as they are given their lessons is one of the most profoundly collaborative and beautiful parts of the work.  

March 2012 Newsletter

In Uncategorized on March 2, 2012 at 6:16 pm

“‘Normalized’ children, aided by their environment, show in their subsequent development those wonderful powers that we describe: spontaneous discipline, continuous and happy work, social sentiments of help and sympathy for others.”
Dr. Maria Montessori

DATES TO REMEMBER:
Group Photos, Fri., 3/2/12, please be at school by 8:30am
Gardening Day, Sat., 3/3/12, 8am-noon
Rain Date for Group Photos, Thurs., 3/8/12
Workshop: “The Importance of the Three Year Cycle” exploring the Cardinals curriculum, Sat., 3/10/12, 9-11am, child care is available
Book Club, Sun., 3/11/12, 1-3pm “Tools of the Mind”
SCHOOL CLOSES AT NOON THURS. 3/15/12
SCHOOL CLOSED FRI., 3/16/12 (teachers go to the AMS conference)
Spring Begins, Tues., 3/20/12
CPR and 1st Aid, Thurs., 3/29/12, 6:30-9pm, only $25/person
It is better to travel well than to arrive. ~ Buddha
 

Time has taken a leap this year.  It leaped into my everyday thoughts as I anticipated and then celebrated my birthday and it leaped, as a theme, into my thoughts through the books I’ve been reading lately.
I turned 60 .. which surprised and stunned me because when in heaven’s name could that have happened?   For years I have referred to time as “the weird factor” just because it is so stunning.  It has a way of speeding up and slowing down depending on what’s happening, or on what stage of life you are currently living.
As a child it took forever for birthdays and holidays to arrive and now they are upon me so fast I’m barely done cleaning up from the last one.  Oddly enough, as things happen, I was lent a book by Mark Helprin called Winter’s Talea most enjoyable story told in indefinite time  .. which is somewhat disorienting.  Then I turned to one of my birthday present books, Julian Barnes’ The Sense of an Ending which is a tale of memory as the main character looks back on his life.
Why do I bring this up?
I am just home from the AMI (Montessori) refresher course. There we discussed many aspects of engaging the human personality.  Within those discussions there was almost always a mention of the gift of time given to children in Montessori classrooms.  No hurrying from one thing to another, but rather the opportunity for repetition supporting the the child’s quest for understanding and perfecting of his work.  A lovely illustration of this was a video we were shown of a child in a toddler group (Infant Community) who was arranging flowers.  He stayed at his task for a really, really long time and was never interrupted.  He moved back and forth between the shelf  where the vases and doilies were kept, the sink where he got water, the basket of flowers from which to choose, and the table where he set the finished project.  It was pure pleasure to see it. (When I get the link to it, I will pass it on)  The time given to this child to do what he needed to do was a priceless gift.  He self corrected when he skipped a step, never getting frustrated or asking for help.  Standing back and observing, rather than correcting or offering help, allowed this young child the chance to follow his own ‘inner guide’.
Time is precious ..and to take one’s time is a gift.
There are so many ways to consider time with young children. It’s time to get up, time to eat, time to go, time to sleep, etc. Because young children live in the moment, and adults with their awareness of the past and future are often absent from the present, conflicts can easily arise.  Allowing time to prepare for these different responsibilities, getting up, eating, etc. is so helpful in gaining cooperation and building an awareness of time – which is, after all, quite an abstract concept for children who are in a more ‘concrete’ period.   In the classroom children are in their moment with an observant guide available to assist when needed.  The observations she makes are informed by her awareness of many things including the sensitive periods – each of which has its own time.
When we slow down to move and perceive life around us as they do we are likely to experience a calming.  It feels like a luxury these days.  The classroom guides have the dual role of being present for, and with, the children where they are in the moment meeting their immediate needs and, with awareness of what comes next, guiding them in ways that will support that next step.   It is a challenging task straddling what is with what’s to come.  In the Children’s House (3-6) children have the gift of time to blossom as individuals.  There is no time table, no one-size-fits-all.  The mixed age group provides the youngest in the group time for unhurried exploration of the prepared environment and the older a chance to model not only expertise, but also what time has in store.
In the Toddler Community (18 mo to 3 years) it is the same.  The older, more experienced children model their skills even as they strengthen them.  It is these strengthened skills they carry forward making the transition to Children’s House a smooth one.
It is there, in the Children’s House, that the journey through the 3 year cycle of what Dr. Montessori called the “conscious absorbent mind” brings the child to the end of the “first plane of development”.  He then arrives at elementary, ready, willing and able to enjoy the explorations of the 2nd plane child when there is greater capacity for abstraction.
Each experience, each year strengthens the foundation for what comes next.  Just as the three period lesson supports learning through Introduction (This is …) followed some time later with Association/Recognition (Show me…) followed by Recall (What is this?…), the work of the 3 year cycle of the Children’s House, anchored in reality, becomes the strong launching pad, so to speak, for the child to move into the 2nd plane where his wonder, reason and imagination will be sparked for further explorations into what’s possible.
So, time leaps and we must slow down allowing our children to move forward at their own individual pace. It is a gift of trust to them.

February 2012 Newsletter

In Uncategorized on February 2, 2012 at 9:22 pm

“He is directed by a mysterious power, great and wonderful, that he incarnates little by little. In this way he becomes a man .” ~ Dr Maria Montessori

DATES TO REMEMBER:
Casino Night, Sat. Feb 4th, 7-10pm — our annual party with school friends
Book Club, Sun. Feb 12th, 1-3pm — “Nurture Shock” by Po Bronson
Valentine’s Day Tea, Tues. Feb 14th, 7:30-8:30am — join your child’s classroom on the playground and come inside in small groups to enjoy a delicious snack (this is an alternative to individual valentine sharing)
SCHOOL CLOSED, HOLIDAY, MON. FEB. 20th
Parent Yard Work Day, Sat. Feb 25th, 8am-noon — trim trees, move sand, build/prepare garden bed, etc.
 
“Society is made up of individuals brought together in a collaborative endeavor.”
Renilde Montessori

What could a theft, foundation work and Montessori have to do with each other?  

 

My car was stolen in the first week of the new year. At a time when we are all usually saying “Happy New Year” to each other I was smacking my forehead in shock that my car was gone. It was mightily disappointing and quite stunning to walk out to the driveway to find that it had been taken. Happily the car was recovered a week later with no damage, and no loss of possessions – except my wide-brimmed hat.  Everyone has been very kind and sympathetic.  Many friends have commented that I must be feeling violated or angry. In fact, what I felt was sadness. I thought, too, about how easy it is to presume what someone else is feeling based on one’s own response.

In response to “you must be feeling violated” I had to stop and think, “do I?”  The police were polite, responsive, and supportive as were the people at the insurance company. While reporting a theft was not something I wanted to do, I was so grateful for the sympathy and humor while speaking with authorities and agents that I couldn’t help thinking how nice it was to know they were there.

It’s true that I felt deflated; disappointed that someone could actually take my car, but the kindness and concern everyone showed was uplifting in a way I hope I’ll always remember.

In response to the many expressions of sympathy and inquiries about what our plans were and what we were feeling, I kept hearing myself say, “well, all we can do is to move forward.”

This event, and those kinds of thoughts, together with an upcoming Montessori refresher course entitled Montessori: Engaging the Human Personality kept blending in my thoughts.

 Just around this one event there was a range of responses that bespoke a range of personalities. I was happy to have engaged with the best aspects of the human personality even as the least pleasant aspect – a willingness to steal, triggered the encounters.

Another upcoming event is the work on the foundation of our almost 100-year-old house. And again, perhaps because I see Montessori everywhere, my thoughts turned to the construction of foundations and then the work of supporting what comes next – (moving forward and building on what came before). Just as the house is supported on pillars, so the 3 year old is supported by the experiences of his infancy.

 In The Absorbent Mind, Dr Montessori said, “By the age of three the children have completely laid down the foundations of their personality as human beings.” She goes on to say, ” … and we must never forget that man begins his mental growth at birth, and pursues it with the greatest intensity during the first three years of life.”    

 The period from 0-3 is the time of the ‘psychic embryo.’ The child is developing a basic trust in the environment during his first 2 months, and then a trust in himself by about the age of one when he starts to walk.

From an article by Dr Silvana Q. Montanaro, my trainer in Rome, comes this:

“Active movement in the first months of life provides the overall mind-body experience from which self-confidence is derived, and with this very valuable instrument, it is possible to face all the challenges of life.”

The foundation from which he launches himself into the complexities of life must be strong enough for him to bounce off of, and to land on, as the years progress. I will always remember the advice that I was quick to dismiss at the time my daughter was a teen. It was from a mother of an older person. She said, “If the foundation is strong, she’ll come back to it.”   And, to my amazement and delight, she did! (just as it must have amazed and delighted my mother when I did) 

In the context of the Children’s House classroom, all those individual and varied personalities come together as community. There, differences are celebrated and supported.

In the context of our town, the supportive, sympathetic, and humorous personalities with which we engaged during the week the car was missing reminded us of the range and strength of the human personality.

From car theft to foundation repair to the Montessori classroom … it’s all connected.

Perhaps there will be more on the topic of engaging the human personality after the February refresher course! Stay tuned … or ask a question for me to answer. Feel free to get in touch at mimaustin@gmail.com 

 

For more information on Gio Bellonci who writes this portion of our newsletter, 

follow her blog Montessori In Motion 

January 2012 Newsletter

In Uncategorized on January 27, 2012 at 1:08 am

“The child builds his inmost self out of the deeply held impressions he receives.” ~ Dr Maria Montessori

DATES TO REMEMBER:
Fundraising Committee Meeting, Sun., 1/8/12, noon-1pm
Book Club, Sun., 1/8/12, 1-3pm “The Science Behind The Genius” by Angeline Stoll Lillard
SCHOOL CLOSED Mon. 1/16/12, In-Service
“Building Independence” parenting workshop led by Megan and Laura, Sat., 1/21/12, 9:30-11am – signs, cues and preparation for supporting your child as they learn to eat, sleep and toilet independently

“Life is the process of giving birth to ourselves.”
Eric Fromm
Happy New Year!

Tradition has it that we start each year reflecting back on the one just past and promising to start the new with resolve.

New beginnings … I’ve been thinking about them a good bit lately as I join my one pregnant massage client in waiting for the January birth of her son. I’m already in love with this little guy. I have the privilege of feeling him move during our massages. It is already a relationship… and I’m with him just once a week! The depth of relationship between him and his mom (his first “prepared (by nature) environment”) is truly extraordinary.

Nature – and millions of years of evolution – gives the unborn child experience of the external world. He has been experiencing stimulation of the skin, smell and movement from very early on in the pregnancy. He experiences his mother’s heartbeat, breathing and voice, as well as environmental sounds and he has taste experiences from about 3 months. Most amazingly he experiences light and dark from about 4 months on and his own mouth movement and REM sleeping from about 7 months.

With his senses of smell, vision, touch, hearing and taste already working before birth the baby is interacting with the external environment, the one into which he’ll be born, even before arriving here. His “new beginning” will be built upon his in-utero experiences. For instance, the sounds he’s been hearing – his mother’s heart beat, her voice, the voices of those close-by, music – all will serve as “points of reference” for him once he is born. He may be hidden from our view (except for those sonogram photos) but he is in relationship with this bigger world.

This got me to thinking about all the different “firsts” there are. A few for the infant include muscle control, intentional movement, grasping, rolling over, sitting, standing. Then there’s talking and toileting! The list goes on and on. Each new capability is built on effort born of an internal drive to become more. I imagine a newborn’s new year resolution to be something like, “This year I’ll grasp, turn, sit, grow teeth, feed myself and come to standing!”and then he gets busy at making it all happen! We should all be so lucky as to have such a strong internal drive!

How can we assist the child in meeting his “goals”? Well, for the infant, as Dr. Montessori said, “it would be enough for us not to put obstacles in his way.” Of course we do much more than that. We offer safe space for free movement, ‘developmental aids’ (ie toys) that encourage and engage him and our respectful attention – in other words, a “prepared environment.”

For the older children the materials Dr. Montessori developed hold a wonderful key: indirect preparation and the progression of concrete experiences to abstract understanding.

Just as the infant who arrives is touched by the influences of the external world, the children in the classroom are becoming readers, writers, and number manipulators through exposure to, and use of, materials that may not seem related to those “goals.”

For instance, one might wonder what grasping the knobs of the cylinders in the cylinder blocks has to do with writing. Grasping the knobs of the cylinders is an indirect preparation for holding a pencil. All the ‘sensorial materials’ serve in one way or another as ‘indirect preparation’ while offering a concrete experience. “Large” and “small” have a hands-on meaning while manipulating the cylinders. “Loud” and “soft” become clear while matching the sound cylinders, as do “heavy” and “light” while using the baric tablets.

With the senses developed and refined by the use of these materials, the child moves on to more sophisticated work just as the infant, with all he has absorbed during his time in-utero, moves into the bigger world, already in love, ready to put his 100 billion neurons to work to become fully human.

So, here’s to each stage! May each be filled with experiences that enrich the “new beginning” to follow!

Oh, speaking of stages – the baby was born on the 30th of December and I got to be there! Each stage of labor leading beautifully to the next until that little sweetheart was in his mother’s arms. Love. Fully human. Fantastic!

“The study of love and its utilization will lead us to the source from which it springs, The Child.”
- Dr Maria Montessori

For more information on Gio Bellonci who writes this portion of our newsletter, follow her blog Montessori In Motion

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